Kudos to Ferdinand for this post which has soaked into my brain and changed me. This video also demonstrates that very recently physical discipline for women was commonplace, uncontroversial, and universally accepted. These things have been working on my mind. The "It's NEVER okay to hit a woman" programming is being wiped off my system. In the last week I have slapped two women and the results were very positive. It should be noted that the slaps I've given have been done in a playful kind of way, and not so hard that it actually hurts, but enough to get their attention.
The First Slap
At the usual bar hangout with around 8 people. My lesbian friend Leslie is sitting to my right. During some joking around she makes some joke about me and I give a light backhanded slap to the face. It was very light. I'd almost say it was more of a medium/strong tap on the cheek with the back of my hand. I tried googling for a video of a similar kind of slap but I can't find one so my written description will have to suffice. After a split second of shock she started laughing and smiling as did the girl sitting across from us who we were also talking to. From there conversation continued as normal.
The Second Slap
At an Indian restaurant with my fiance Ashley picking up some take-out. We are sitting face to face talking while waiting for our food. I can't remember precisely what she even said, but it was something like "You look really handsome tonight" and I responded by doing the same kind of "tap"/light slap with the back of my hand while saying "Don't talk like that in public." She reacted with a shocked face, followed by appreciative laughter and then leaning in to kiss me. I'm not shitting you.
Before the Second Slap
The slap and then eating Indian food at home was at the tail end of what was already a good evening with my fiance. Here's what happened up until that point.
She gets home from work and we do some talking about how our days went. I mention eating lunch with a female classmate and then some of my conversation with another female classmate in my afternoon class.
During our conversation I start to get a chubby for no particular reason and I pull my dong out and walk over to where she's sitting and start slapping her face with it which transitions into a pretty righteous blowjob. This sexual initiation is to be contrasted with my old style of tentatively asking her if she was in the mood maybe possibly for perhaps sex or maybe just a blowjob pretty please honey? Just pulling your hard dick out and sticking it in her face won't work every time, but it beats asking "pretty please" for sexual favors like a beta chump.
After the blowjob we go out for a beer at a decent place just down the street. During the beer I'm feeling more talkative and happy than my usual self (thanks to the blowjob???) and so I find it very easy to lead the conversation and be funny. We spend some time talking about when we first got together. She even said how sometimes she misses "Cool Jean-Luc" from when we first met and got together. I asked her to elaborate. I couldn't get much out of her. She probably couldn't say because she doesn't understand what made "Cool Jean-Luc" cool. I understand.
I make the decision for what to get for dinner. Getting Indian take-out was actually her idea, but I framed it as my decision, and so she was happy and appreciative towards me when I made it. As we walked to the restaurant I held her hand but put her hand behind her back, arm bent at the elbow at a 90 degree angle. As we walked this way she told me about how much she enjoyed giving me a blowjob and how she liked watching me cum, and how it made her horny. We exchanged some more dirty talk on the way to the restaurant.
When we get to the restaurant, instead of mulling over the menu for 15 minutes and being unable to decide between a couple things that look good (what I used to do 100% of the time) I made my decision within a few seconds. I was done picking what I wanted before Ashley was. After we choose what we want we sit there talking and that's when I slap her.
A Cascade of Slaps
Then we go home and enjoy some lovely Indian food and share some more laughs and enjoy each others' company. After the pre-dinner beer and the with-dinner wine and the fact that we had both had very busy days we go to bed with no further sexytime, although the next morning she wake up feeling quite in the mood...
After the morning fun we don't see each other for most the day. She goes into town shopping for spring clothes with a friend and I have a female classmate come to the apartment to work on a project. Ashley comes home around 7:00PM and then my female classmate leaves. Ashley and I decide to go out to a restaurant again. First we go by one of our favorite bars for a beer. While we're there two friends of mine happen to bar separately and they come by and say hi to us (social proof for me). While we're enjoying our beer and talking I end up doing the light back-handed slap to her face no less than 3 times. Every single time I do it she loves it. She's smiling and laughing and after the third time she tells me I should stop or people might start to think I'm really an abusive boyfriend. She says this in a fun conspiratorial whisper while smiling. She also initiates some more dirty talk.
At the restaurant we have some delicious food. There's a little dirty talk but mostly chewing. At one point on the walk home I was walking in front of her and she grabbed my arm and told me to slow down so I slapped her again with the same result as before, pleased laughter. I had to try to stop myself because I didn't want to overdo it in one night. The next day, more sex. I should also note that this is all happening within the window of days when Ashley is likely to be ovulating. If I slap her in a week or two and she reacts badly, then perhaps this is a part of it. I should also mention that I've actually seen Ashley's father do this type of light slap to her mother on more than one occasion. If her dad has always done this and she's seen it since being a young child, then this kind of mild violence could be imprinted in her brain as the right and proper behavior of the alpha male of the family unit.
Since I haven't slapped any woman yet during an actual fight or dispute, I can't report on that. But I can unequivocally say that this light playful slap is excellent during playful banter.
Since I started slapping her Ashley has been a lot more pleasant to be around, and she has seemed way happier with me. She's behaved more like a woman in love than any other time in recent memory.
Addendum: I just re-slapped Leslie after class. She responded by laughing and telling me "I like it when you slap me."
Addendum 2: Slapped another female classmate/friend today. Basically there was no reaction. No smiling or laughing but no getting mad/ flipping out either. She just took it like it was a perfectly natural element of conversation. This kind of slap really is like just a physical neg more than anything else. I'm really loving doing it. I need to work on not getting carried away. Have to keep it natural.