Women always like to claim that they're more sensitive than men, that they're nurturers, that they are empathetic and sympathetic. But I'm starting to see that it's a big fat lie.
It's true that, in general, mothers are extraordinary nurturers of their OWN CHILDREN and their own GRANDCHILDREN. But that's about it. If you've got a crush on some chick and start doing nice things for her, do you think you'll see any affection, nurturing, empathy, or sympathy? Hell no. Even if you're in a relationship with a woman, it's difficult when you get sick. They'll bring you some medicine or some kleenexs or a hot tea with honey and make a big show of it, and rub your head and say something like "Oh I LOVE taking care of my HONEY!" But it never lasts long like this. If you're really sick, and you're not better within a few hours/day, any woman will become increasingly disgusted by you. Women hate weakness, and if they start to think they've mistakenly coupled up with a weakling, they will start to show you nothing but contempt and hatred, not empathy or care.
The more time you spend with a woman, the more she'll try to turn you into her caretaker. Before you know it, you'll be running her little errands, doing her little chores, bringing her stuff in bed, going to get her something even if she's physically closer to it than you are, and she'll be wholly unwilling to return any of the same caring gestures towards you. Women will try to turn you into their personal servant. Don't let it happen.
I feel u. My girl will bring the meds and tea. But compassion or a hug? Forget it. Me sick = her annoyed. I actually caught her roll her eyes this morning. She doesn't know I caught it. But damn made me feel like such crap. I been trying to play off how bad I REALLY feel. Shouldnt have to edit being sick but it really does hurt my feelings because I do any and everything for her. In sickness and in health.
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