Making Love Like a Beta

Is there a beta way to make love? I think so. There's two very beta sexual traits I can think of, one of which I've been guilty of, the other I haven't.

I think premature ejaculation is a definite beta trait. In the hunter/gatherer, small-community days, a lesser male, to pass on his genes, needed to be able to dispatch his goo as quickly as possible, lest the AMOG come along and pull him off the lady and give him a lashing. It's a definite in-and-out fast, avoid being detected, stealth sex strategy. I've never had this problem, but I wanted to throw it out there.

I also think that getting hyperexcited, moving fast and frantically is also beta. Again, in the hunter-gatherer days, the alpha male can take as long as he likes when he's nailing his ladies. No other male or female is going to dare to give him shit or try to stop him. His movements can and will be slow and deliberate. He can take his time and enjoy her body. I don't mean that once you get to actual intercourse it has to be slow, but I'm talking more about the buildup. And this could also be why women value foreplay so much. The alpha male, unchallenged, can take his time. The beta male has to rush and ejaculate as fast as he can to avoid getting "caught."

I've been guilty of a lack of foreplay. I have in the past wanted to get to penetration within a few moments. I move my hands quickly, feeling her breasts, then her abdomen, then her ass, back to her breasts, all in a fast frenzied manner.  Almost "frantically" feeling up the girl, rather than slowly, deliberately, intentionally, savoring each sensation. Interpreting this through the alpha/beta evolutionary lens, I can understand why I've not always been the best in bed.

Next time I'm getting it on with my lady, I'm going to take my time, build up slowly. My movements will be calm, under control, deliberate. I'll lead. I'll be in charge. I won't be in a rush to penetrate. I'll tease her, and build up the anticipation. And when we do eventually get to penetration, then I'll go harder and rougher than I have usually dared. I will own her body.