I'm a student, and in addition to gaming my fiance, I've started gaming my female classmates as well. There's one girl in particular that I'm sure likes me quite a bit now. We'll call her Sally. My game seems to be working pretty well on her. I get a lot of IOIs from her, and she always seems happy to see and talk to me.
Recently, I went to a party with a ton of people. Sally was there as well. When I got there, she was being hit on by a couple a guys. She's a pretty good looking chick. I could tell she wasn't interested in these other guys at all. They were coming on very direct, telegraphing interest, looking kind of desperate and pathetic in my point of view. When I got in the room it took just a couple seconds for her to ditch the guys that were talking to her and she came up to me. I said hi but didn't give her any special attention whatsoever. Mostly kept talking to other people. Before long I left the room to go talk to people elsewhere.
Before too long, she came along and found me. There was some guy that I hadn't met before, and we started talking. As long as there was a man to talk to, I would talk to him and totally ignore the fact that Sally was there. She would laugh at all my jokes that I was telling to the guy, and I would barely glance at her acknowledging that she was even there kind of part of the conversation. This continued the whole night. The more I ignored her and talked to other people, the more she followed me around and acted desperate for my attention.
I'm sure if I had wanted to do something with Sally I could have this night. I'm not going to do that, I want to continue gaming my fiance and get that relationship back to how it should be. But in any case, knowing how to deal with women is making me way more confident. If things don't work out with one, there's always another that you can game and make fall in love with you.
Ignoring can be tough for newbies because *purposeful* ignorance comes across as mean/insecure. But if you can ignore someone naturally and effortlessly, like you forgot they were there - or better yet, you actually did - magic.
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