A friend named Olivia (all names are changed) in a long term relationship with Adam. Two years ago Olivia got sick. The doctors still don't really know why, it's probably something genetic. She was in and out of the hospital, her liver function was all goofy. Adam during this time (and before, and since) was cheating on her. Not with any particular girl, but just whoever comes along, he'll sleep with if the opportunity arises. Since Adam and Olivia were in a long term relationship of several years, lived together, etc, you'd expect (if you're a beta like me) that he would be taking care of her and tending to her needs during this scary and difficult time. But mostly he just continued to party. When she would be home from the hospital, in bed feeling sick, he'd be out in the other room of the apartment with 20 friends, drinking and smoking pot.
This guy is not a domineering or authoritarian type alpha. He's the super social, happy go lucky, life of the party, aloof, consequences-be-damned, super-confident type alpha. He lives his exciting fun life, and Olivia is thrilled to be able to go along for the ride. His life didn't stop when she was sick, it just kept going.
I don't know him all that well to be honest, but I'm sure if his cheating ever comes up, he surely would never apologize (important alpha trait). He'd probably reframe, brush it off, accuse her of overreacting, and insist that there's nothing wrong with a little fun.
In the last two years they've both traveled (separately), doing study abroad programs in various places. I assumed that she would break up with him, have some flings when she was away from him, and basically move on. But it's not the case. Despite all his running around, she can't bear the thought of actually breaking up with him. This story provides support for several game principles. With this story in mind, read the 16 Commandments of Poon. Adam (almost certainly unconsciously) is living by several of these commandments. II Make her Jealous. III. Make your mission your priority (he's living his fun adventurous life, she can come along for the ride or not, and she of course wants to). IV. He's living by his own rules. XI. He's very confident. XVI. He's obviously not afraid to lose her. He's likely following several of the other commandments as well.
This guy is not a domineering or authoritarian type alpha. He's the super social, happy go lucky, life of the party, aloof, consequences-be-damned, super-confident type alpha. He lives his exciting fun life, and Olivia is thrilled to be able to go along for the ride. His life didn't stop when she was sick, it just kept going.
I don't know him all that well to be honest, but I'm sure if his cheating ever comes up, he surely would never apologize (important alpha trait). He'd probably reframe, brush it off, accuse her of overreacting, and insist that there's nothing wrong with a little fun.
In the last two years they've both traveled (separately), doing study abroad programs in various places. I assumed that she would break up with him, have some flings when she was away from him, and basically move on. But it's not the case. Despite all his running around, she can't bear the thought of actually breaking up with him. This story provides support for several game principles. With this story in mind, read the 16 Commandments of Poon. Adam (almost certainly unconsciously) is living by several of these commandments. II Make her Jealous. III. Make your mission your priority (he's living his fun adventurous life, she can come along for the ride or not, and she of course wants to). IV. He's living by his own rules. XI. He's very confident. XVI. He's obviously not afraid to lose her. He's likely following several of the other commandments as well.
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